Monday, December 24, 2012

Holiday wishes for you--through a poem

 

     

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Hello to all my readers:

Wherever you may be, and whatever is going on in your life now, I want to send you my wishes for a holiday season and New Year filled with connection and intimacy. I'd love to share that wish through one of my favorite poems.

Many years ago, camping in the Wind River Mountains on Wyoming, my friends and I found ourselves in the midst of a memorable sunshower. It was summertime, and we were on a sloping meadow. Half the sky was black and  dark, while half was bright and sunny. Sunlight beamed down on us as we got soaked by a gentle rain. It felt like...life. One friend was moved to share this peice of a poem by TS Eliot.

"You bring me news
Of a door that opens at the end of a corridor,
Sunlight and singing;
when I had felt sure

That every corridor only led to another,
Or to a blank wall; that I kept moving
Only so as not to stay still.
Singing and light."

                            —From The Family Reunion by T.S. Eliot 

In your journey toward love, if you keep sharing your true heart, and building your life with those precious people who treasure you for who you are, doors will open. Somehow, they just will. Out of nowhere, sometimes. I'm so thankful for those doors, and for all the possibilities behind them.

This year to come, we'll all hit moments of doorless halls, of frustrating corridor upon corridor (Hey! That sounds a lot like the world of dating!) Yet the more time we decide to spend in inspiring relationships, the more we'll find doors that can--and will--change our futures.

Here's to all the wonderful new doors to come in your year ahead!

With much care
Ken

www.KenPageLCSW.Com

 

 
 




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Monday, December 10, 2012

The Healing Gift of Non-Gratitude/Psychology Today

 

     

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Hello to all my readers!

I hope you enjoy my new Psychology Today post. I've wanted to write this for a very long time.  If you enjoy this post, I invite you to forward or share by clicking the above links. Thank you so much for following my work! 

Also, I wanted to remind you that today is the last day to receive a discount for registering for my new "Wiser Path to Love" teleclass series.

Warmly
Ken



The Healing Gift of Non-Gratitude

Cultivating gratitude is a wonderful thing, but forced gratitude clouds our judgment, and usually mutates into self-recrimination. We’re all exhorted to feel gratitude, but who teaches us to honor feelings of non-gratitude: emptiness, longing, or a gut-level sense that something’s wrong? These feelings hold half the key for achieving our most precious life-goals

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Saturday, November 24, 2012

New 5 class Deeper Dating course with coaching - discount for early registration

 

     

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Hello to all my readers,

I am delighted to announce a new five-session Deeper Dating series of classes and coaching -with a special discount for early registration. 


These ideas have been life-changing for thousands of readers and event participants, and the new format will offer personalized coaching in every class. The class is for people of all ages, backgrounds, life-situations and sexual orientations. Come join us--and give yourself the gift of deeper intimacy in the New Year.
 

THE WISER PATH TO LOVE:
A FIVE SESSION SERIES OF CLASSES AND COACHING WITH KEN PAGE, LCSW

Register now (full payment) and receive $25 off the cost of the class. After 12/10, the price will go up to $199. Installment payment plan is also available.

Date: Thursday evenings, January 3, 2013 to February 7, 2013 (No session 1/17) 
Time: 8:30pm — 9:45pm EST. 
All classes will be recorded in case you miss them.
Comments from previous participants:
 
I am in awe of how you work, the way you can follow essence down to some key source of love/healing/wounds/gifts.   

It's a very healing teaching approach and the content is superb, insightful, spiritual, and gentle.


This teleseminar has created a huge shift for me.  It has replaced fear, self-judgment and confusion with understanding and consciousness.  I now understand why the relationships I had always turned out the same way, but most importantly, I understand how to move forward and find a partner who is a real fit for the real me.
 
I am absolutely thrilled to tell you that I have met the most amazing man. It is very early, but he legitimately seems to be the man for whom I have been waiting for a very long time. I have to say this possibility in my life is a tribute to all of the work I have been doing with you and my classmates.

Your teleclass will include:

  • Five 75 minute class sessions including 45 minutes of class and 30 minutes of personalized coaching, all designed to help you discover and embrace your own unique Core Gifts and use them to lead you to real love and self-acceptance.
  • Exercises, field trips, and micro-meditations designed to change, heal and empower the way you search for love
  • Downloadable handouts for each class, which will form your own deeper dating handbook
  • An exciting community of learning including a forum to share ideas, insights and questions with other class participants
  • A Dating Buddy (I'll match you with your buddy) to share and integrate all the insights you'll be learning in this course

As a result of this class you can expect to:

  • Discover and more deeply embrace your own Core Gifts
  • Dramatically change and empower your approach to finding love
  • Learn to distinguish between "relationships of deprivation" and "relationships of inspiration"
  • Understand your life and your intimacy journey in new and life-changing ways.

Teleclass Pricing and Guarantee

The cost of this entire course is $174. ($199 after 12/10.) If the idea of this training interests you, I'd be delighted to have you join us. I'm also offering this money back guarantee: If you don't feel that you've received significant benefit from the class by the third session, I'll refund your money in full. Below are the links to register, either with full payment, or with a three-payment installment plan. And if you have questions about your own participation or whether this would be a match for you, feel free to call me at 516-241-1229. And please feel free to share this information with anyone you think might be interested! Warmly, Ken

REGISTER HERE FOR THE COURSE
 

Ken Page, LCSW

Ken Page, LCSW is a psychotherapist who practices in New York City, and the author of the upcoming book, Deeper Dating (Shambhala, 2014) He is the author of the very popular Psychology Today blog, Finding Love. He is the founder of Deeper Dating, and has led hundreds of workshops and retreats in the areas of spirituality and intimacy. He has led events at The Omega Institute, Rowe Conference Center, and the 92nd Street Y. He and his work have been featured in numerous media, including O, The Oprah Magazine, The New York Times, WPIX-TV, Cosmopolitan Magazine, Match.Com, The Discovery Channel, Life Magazine, WebMD and The Advocate, among others.

Contact Ken Page, LCSW at Kenpage7654@aol.com for information about individual psychotherapy and workshops.
 

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Thursday, October 18, 2012

WPIX TV interview and this weekend's Identity and Intimacy Conference

Hello to all my readers,

I wanted to share a short interview on WPIX TV this week. Krissy Gasbarre and I spoke about some of the things that get in the way of finding love. I hope you enjoy it! CLICK HERE

In the interview, we also spoke about Krissy's Intimacy and Identity Conference, which will be held this weekend! I'm honored to be giving the keynote talk at the conference, and there will also be an incredible array of wonderful speakers. Krissy is the real deal, and this conference will be a transformative event. I hope you'll consider joining us.

Here's the link to learn more about the conference and its speakers : CLICK HERE: (The lineup of Saturday's speakers is below.)

Have a wonderful day!

Warmly
Ken

10:30-11am: Kristine Gasbarre
Author, How to Love an American Man: A True Story
Welcome to identity&intimacy
 
11am: Cherie Dennis
Plus-sized model/creator of CutAndCurvy.com
The relationship between body acceptance and romance
 
11:30am: Dr. JD Friedman, PsyD
Licensed psychologist (and as JD says, "I'm also a guy")
The most pervasive (and frustrating) challenge guys are facing in romance
 
12pm: Baze Mpinja 
Creator of Beautycism.com/former Beauty Editor at GlamourMagazine 
America's concept of "beauty" and its influence on a woman's self-image
 
12:30pm: Carlos Andres Gomez 
Hollywood actor/author/award-winning poet 
Reading and reflections from his new memoir, Man Up: Cracking the Code of Modern Manhood
 
1pmLunch & Book Signing by Kristine Gasbarre and Carlos Andres Gomez
assorted sandwiches, homemade potato chips, cupcakes provided by NYC's famous Baked By Melissa
 
1:30-4pm: Ken Page, LCSW (featuring Kristine Gasbarre)
Licensed psychotherapist, author of PsychologyToday.com's "Finding Love" blog and the upcoming book, Deeper Dating
Keynote presentation on how our biggest insecurities reveal our greatest gifts, and how to identify and ask for the love we need

4:30pm: Denise Albert
Award-winning TV host, journalist, producer/co-creator of TheMOMS
The most crucial takeaways from identity&intimacy


 





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Sunday, October 7, 2012

Chip Conley: How Emotional Equations Can Deepen Our Relationships and Our Sense of Meaning /Psychology Today- Enjoy!

 

     

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Hello to all my readers!

I hope you enjoy my new Psychology Today post. I'm inspired by Chip Conley's life-story and his writing. If you enjoy this post, I invite you to forward or share by clicking the above links. Thank you so much for following my work!

Warmly
Ken



Chip Conley: Emotional Equations, Love and Meaning

Chip Conley is the New York Times bestselling author of four books including Emotional Equations. In this interview, he teaches two emotional equations we can use to increase the intimacy in our lives and find meaning within our deepest personal challenges.

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Monday, October 1, 2012

4 Signs That Healthy Love Is On Its Way/Psychology Today

 

     

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Hello to all my readers!

I hope you enjoy my new Psychology Today post. If you do, I invite you to forward or share by clicking the above links. Thank you so much for following my work!

Warmly
Ken



Four Signs That Healthy Love Is On Its Way

I've found that four conditions often forecast the advent of real and healthy love. Love’s arrival feels like magic; a gift of luck. Yet we can invite that luck by approaching our dating life differently. If these shifts are happening for you, be encouraged. You’re probably well on the way to finding the kind of love that can last.

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Saturday, September 1, 2012

Why we Fear Our Deepest Gifts/Psychology Today

 

     

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Hello to all my readers!

I hope you enjoy my new Psychology Today post. If you like the article, I invite you to forward or share by clicking the above links, and I thank you so much for following my work!

Warmly
Ken



Why We Fear Our Deepest Gifts
 

Self-improvement is often no more than self-criticism in a terrific outfit. Our culture focuses obsessively on the endless quest for improvement, but there’s a much more thrilling area of inquiry: What parts of ourselves are aching for expression, and why do we flee their heat? 

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Ken Page, LCSW

Ken Page, LCSW is a psychotherapist who practices in New York City. He is the author of Psychology Today's Finding Love blog, the founder of Deeper Dating, and  he has led hundreds of workshops and retreats in the areas of spirituality and intimacy. He has led events at The Omega Institute, Rowe Conference Center, and the 92nd Street Y. He and his work have been featured in numerous media, including O, The Oprah Magazine, The New York Times, Match.Com, The Discovery Channel, Life Magazine, WebMD and The Advocate, among others. His Gift Theory was introduced in his recently published article in the professional journal GROUP.

Contact Ken Page, LCSW at Kenpage7654@aol.com for information about individual psychotherapy and workshops.
 

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Wednesday, August 29, 2012

The 2012 Labor Day Retreat at Easton Mountain! (And a study for gay men in therapy)

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Hello to all: 

This coming weekend is the Labor Day Retreat at Easton Mountain--an amazing event has changed the lives of many men. For many of us, lifelong friendships have been created at Labor Day. John Salvato, Frank Carson and John Ballew are amazing leaders  as many of you already know. So, if you are looking to meet wonderful new men and have a joyful, heartfelt experience this Labor Day, then come join this community. I can't recommend it highly enough. And I look forward to seeing you: I'll be coming for part of the retreat as well.
With love for this wonderful community,
Ken Page

 
Gay Men’s Labor Day Retreat
at Easton Mountain Retreat Center
Playing Together:  Exploring Fun in Your Life

Friday, August 31 - Monday, September 3, 2012

Join us for the Annual Labor Day Retreat at Easton Mountain, a gathering of gay, bi, and transgender men focused on experiencing personal inner growth and building community.  This year’s theme is “Playing Together:  Exploring Fun in Your Life.” Whether it’s in playing sports or expressing creativity and playfulness through writing, singing, movement, art, storytelling, ritual, dressing up, or quiet and intimate connections – Fun, in all its forms, is the field that relationships run on.

At Labor Day, we each take the risk of sharing our deepest inspirations and aspirations with each other.  In large and small group activities, we draw from our personal strengths to create and play in a supportive community.  

We invite you to join our community:  Bring your gifts, struggles, and dreams.  There will be plenty of time to connect with old and new friends and to relax in a beautiful environment.

Facilitated by John Salvato, NYC; Frank Carson, NYC; and
John Ballew, Atlanta, GA; with Jack Hyman, Tom Dennison, & Special Guest Author, Charles Rice-Gonzalez
 
For info and registration- please go to www.eastonmountain.com or call 800-553-8235.




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AND A REQUEST FOR VOLUNTEERS FROM MY FRIEND MORTY ROSENBAUM, FOR HIS STUDY OF GAY MEN IN THERAPY



Hello, all supporters of science, LGBT awareness, and psychotherapy!
 
I am a doctoral student who is looking for the help of gay men, aged 18 and older, who are currently engaged in regular individual psychotherapy. If you fit this description, I hope you’ll consider filling out an anonymous, <10-minute online survey about your experience of therapy.
 
If you complete the survey, you’ll have the option of providing your email address to enter a raffle to win one of three Amazon.com gift certificates: one for $100 and two for $50 each. If you do provide your email address, it will be used only to notify you if you’ve won.
 
If you meet the criteria and wish to participate, take the survey by following this link:
https://liubpsych.us2.qualtrics.com/SE/?SID=SV_b8gzf6yJJBkrMfa 
  If you know someone else who meets the criteria and think he might be interested, please pass this email along.


Your participation in this research is voluntary. You must complete the 10-minute survey in order to enter the raffle, and you may participate only once. If you decide to discontinue your participation in the study, you can do so by exiting the survey. At that point, the responses you have already provided will be used for the study only if you authorize their use.

 
This research has been approved by the IRB of the Long Island University Brooklyn Institutional Review Board. 
You may also contact the student researcher, Morton Rosenbaum, M.A., at liu.research@gmail.com. Thanks very much for your help. 
 
-- 
Morton Rosenbaum, M.A.
Doctoral Candidate, Clinical Psychology
Long Island University
 









 

 

For info and registration, please go to www.eastonmountain.com or

call 800-553-8235. 

At Easton Mountain Retreat Center, NE of Albany, NY

 

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Friday, August 17, 2012

Invitation to The Identity and Intimacy Conference October 19-21

Hello to all my readers,

Krissy Gasbarre is author of How To Love an American Man, and someone I'm proud to call a friend. Through dialogues with her many fans, she realized she felt a strong call to create a conference about self-love and the path to intimacy. I'm most honored to be the keynote speaker! Krissy is the real thing, and I'm very excited about this conference. 

There are two weeks left to register at a discount. See Krissy's description of the workshop below. I think this will be an inspiring and powerful experience and I hope you"ll join us.

With much appreciation,
Ken
 
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Where:
 
Yotel New York
570 Tenth Avenue at 42nd St.
 
** Guest hotel rooms at group discount thru 9/19.
            1.877.909.6835      
Use code "Identity & Intimacy Social Block" **
 
New York, NY 10036
 


When:
 
Friday 'Aperitivo' Cocktail Kickoff (optional): 
October 19, 2012 at 7:00 PM
 
Saturday Retreat:
October 20, 10 AM to 4 PM
FOUR (Yotel's 4th Floor Restaurant)
 
Brunch with Krissy (optional):
Sunday, October 21, 2012 at 11 AM 
 
 
 
Just two weeks left to register at a discount for a weekend that will transform your experience in love. After September 1, registration for Identity & Intimacy goes from $195 to $220 for an individual and $350 to $400 if you register with a friend.
 
Last week my friends at outlets like Glamour Magazine, iVillage.com, YourTango.com, Huffington Post, CNN, and Avon came for a sneak-preview of Identity & Intimacy with a talk led by Identity & Intimacy's keynote speaker psychotherapist Ken Page and me. (Plus they got to experience our incredible retreat venue, Yotel. Just...WOW.) 

Our media friends' thoughts?
  • "This was AMAZING. Tonight changed my life."
  • "I'm married and didn't think this would resonate with me, but I found myself writing down every word."
  • "Where do I sign up? I'm COMING!"
By simply identifying and uncovering what your greatest strengths are, at Identity & Intimacy you'll come to see that you already possess everything you need to get the love you crave. That power is activated when you can live everyday with the uniqueness and heart that make you, 
 
YOU. 

Truly, what my team is planning works miracles. Register below, and be watchingour Facebook page for upcoming word on where you can catch Identity & Intimacy in the media -- we have some superfun updates coming soon.
Get more information.
Register Now!
I wish I could make it.
Email me at krissy@kristinegasbarre.com with questions, and visit my website for more information plus updates on where you can read my latest, you How to Love an American Man fam!
 
Thanks & Love (Real Love!),
 
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Treat Yourself To The 2012 Labor Day Retreat at Easton Mountain!( Woops!)

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Hello to all: ( I'm resending this since my last email said 2011, not 2012. Sorry about that!)

I want to share information with you about the Labor Day Retreat; an amazing event has changed the lives of many men. For many of us, lifelong friendships have been created at Labor Day. John Salvato, Frank Carson and John Ballew are amazing leaders  as many of you already know. So, if you are looking to meet wonderful new men and have a joyful, heartfelt experience this Labor Day, then come join this community. I can't recommend it highly enough. And I look forward to seeing you: I'll be coming for part of the retreat as well.
With love for this wonderful community,
Ken Page

 
Gay Men’s Labor Day Retreat
at Easton Mountain Retreat Center
Playing Together:  Exploring Fun in Your Life

Friday, August 31 - Monday, September 3, 2012

Join us for the Annual Labor Day Retreat at Easton Mountain, a gathering of gay, bi, and transgender men focused on experiencing personal inner growth and building community.  This year’s theme is “Playing Together:  Exploring Fun in Your Life.” Whether it’s in playing sports or expressing creativity and playfulness through writing, singing, movement, art, storytelling, ritual, dressing up, or quiet and intimate connections – Fun, in all its forms, is the field that relationships run on.

At Labor Day, we each take the risk of sharing our deepest inspirations and aspirations with each other.  In large and small group activities, we draw from our personal strengths to create and play in a supportive community.  

We invite you to join our community:  Bring your gifts, struggles, and dreams.  There will be plenty of time to connect with old and new friends and to relax in a beautiful environment.

Facilitated by John Salvato, NYC; Frank Carson, NYC; and
John Ballew, Atlanta, GA; with Jack Hyman, Tom Dennison, & Special Guest Author, Charles Rice-Gonzalez
 
For info and registration- please go to www.eastonmountain.com or call 800-553-8235.









 

 

 

For info and registration, please go to www.eastonmountain.com or

call 800-553-8235. 

At Easton Mountain Retreat Center, NE of Albany, NY

 

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