How to Develop Sexual Attraction to People Who Are Good For You

 

Hello to all my readers! The skills described in this post changed the course of my dating life and my intimacy journey. I hope you find them useful as well.  I welcome all your feedback, and I thank you so much for following my work! Warmly Ken How To Develop Sexual Attraction to People Who Are Good For You   Sexual attraction can't be forced. Most of us have learned that the hard way. What we haven't been taught is that sexual attractions can be educated. Even if you're relentlessly attracted to bad-boys, bad girls, or to unavailable people, you can still learn how to cultivate your attraction to partners who are good for you. This post will teach some ways to do this.  Read More:

Ken Page, LCSW Ken Page, LCSW is a psychotherapist who practices in New York City. He is the author of Psychology Today's Finding Love blog, the founder of Deeper Dating, and  he has led hundreds of workshops and retreats in the areas of spirituality and intimacy. He has led events at The Omega Institute, Rowe Conference Center, and the 92nd Street Y. He and his work have been featured in numerous media, including O, The Oprah Magazine, The New York Times, Match.Com, The Discovery Channel, Life Magazine, WebMD and The Advocate, among others. His Gift Theory was introduced in his recently published article in the professional journal GROUP. Contact Ken Page, LCSW at Kenpage7654@aol.com for information about individual psychotherapy and workshops.

 

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The Five Great Hungers of Your Core Gifts

 

Hello to all my readers! I hope you find this post helpful--this was a thrilling one for me to write, and it's at the heart of what I'm most trying to articulate and to live. Please know that I welcome your feedback as I work to develop Gift Theory. Your insights are very valuable to me. No obligation, of course, but if you have a response to any of the ideas in this post, I'd love to hear them. Thank you so much for following my work! Warmly, Ken The Five Great Hungers Of Our Core Gifts   Core Gifts are the most tender places inside us. We find them wherever we feel the most vulnerable, passionate and authentic. They lie at the very heart of our creativity and our love. If we open to them, they guide us inexorably to what matters most to us. To ignore them is to commit an act of quiet violence against ourselves. This post will help you discover your own core gifts, and will explain the five great hungers of these gifts.  Read More:

Ken Page, LCSW Ken Page, LCSW is a psychotherapist who practices in New York City. He is the author of Psychology Today's Finding Love blog, the founder of Deeper Dating, and  he has led hundreds of workshops and retreats in the areas of spirituality and intimacy. He has led events at The Omega Institute, Rowe Conference Center, and the 92nd Street Y. He and his work have been featured in numerous media, including O, The Oprah Magazine, The New York Times, Match.Com, The Discovery Channel, Life Magazine, WebMD and The Advocate, among others. His Gift Theory was introduced in his recently published article in the professional journal GROUP. Contact Ken Page, LCSW at Kenpage7654@aol.com for information about individual psychotherapy and workshops.

 

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The Three Steps That Lead To Love

 

Hello to all, Happy Valentines week. I'm happy to share my new post with you. These ideas come from my heart, my own experiences, and from my work with many single people over the last three decades. I truly hope you find it helpful! And please feel free to share it with anyone you think might benefit from it.  Warmly, Ken Deeper Dating: The Three Steps That Lead To Love   An important message for every single person: The way we search for love usually determines the kind of love we find. Popular culture assails us with romanticized images of love, and then encourages us to play dehumanizing games in order to find it. The steps I describe in this post will not only lead you toward real love; they will also enrich your entire life, because they are the skills of true intimacy.  Read More:

Ken Page, LCSW Ken Page, LCSW is a psychotherapist who practices in New York City. He is the author of Psychology Today's Finding Love blog, the founder of Deeper Dating, and  he has led hundreds of workshops and retreats in the areas of spirituality and intimacy. He has led events at The Omega Institute, Rowe Conference Center, and the 92nd Street Y. He and his work have been featured in numerous media, including O, The Oprah Magazine, The New York Times, Match.Com, The Discovery Channel, Life Magazine, WebMD and The Advocate, among others. His Gift Theory was introduced in his recently published article in the professional journal GROUP. Contact Ken Page, LCSW at Kenpage7654@aol.com for information about individual psychotherapy and workshops.

 

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My interview with Marianne Williamson: The Wiser Way To Find Love

 

Hello to all, I’m honored to have Marianne Williamson share her insights on the search for love with readers of my Psychology Today blog. Marianne is one of America’s most beloved spiritual teachers, and the New York Times bestselling author of numerous spiritual classics. In this interview, she shares some hugely valuable--and unexpected--insights about the search for love. Read More:   Enjoy, and blessings on your own intimacy journey! Warmly, Ken

Ken Page, LCSW Ken Page, LCSW is a psychotherapist who practices in New York City. He is the author of Psychology Today's Finding Love blog, the founder of Deeper Dating, and  he has led hundreds of workshops and retreats in the areas of spirituality and intimacy. He has led events at The Omega Institute, Rowe Conference Center, and the 92nd Street Y. He and his work have been featured in numerous media, including O, The Oprah Magazine, The New York Times, Match.Com, The Discovery Channel, Life Magazine, WebMD and The Advocate, among others. His Gift Theory was introduced in his recently published article in the professional journal GROUP. Contact Ken Page, LCSW at Kenpage7654@aol.com for information about individual psychotherapy and workshops.

 

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2 Powerful Resolutions That Don't Require Will-Power!

 

Hello to all, Now, at the end of 2011, I want to thank each of you for taking the time to read my posts. It means a lot to me to get to share these ideas with you. I hope that you find sustenance, intimacy, and a greater degree of self-love in the year ahead.  I have found these two tools to be of defining importance in my life, and I encourage you to try them on for size. Also, please feel free to share this post using the buttons above. All my best, and happy New Year! Warmly, Ken Two Life-Changing Resolutions That Don't Require Will-Power   If you're looking for more happiness and greater intimacy in the year ahead, here are two of the most valuable tools I know. Don't be deceived by the comfort and pleasure they bring; these are direct paths to profound life-change. Try them out, and enjoy the deliciously subversive experience of learning through joy. READ MORE

Ken Page, LCSW Ken Page, LCSW is a psychotherapist who practices in New York City. He is the author of Psychology Today's Finding Love blog, the founder of Deeper Dating, and  he has led hundreds of workshops and retreats in the areas of spirituality and intimacy. He has led events at The Omega Institute, Rowe Conference Center, and the 92nd Street Y. He and his work have been featured in numerous media, including O, The Oprah Magazine, The New York Times, Match.Com, The Discovery Channel, Life Magazine, WebMD and The Advocate, among others. His Gift Theory was introduced in his recently published article in the professional journal GROUP. Contact Ken Page, LCSW at Kenpage7654@aol.com for information about individual psychotherapy and workshops.

 

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Ken's New Post: What Is Your Myth Of Lost Love?

 

Hello to all, I'm really pleased to send you this new Psychology Today post! It captures an essential concept for anyone seeking love or deeper intimacy. Please feel free to share it using the buttons above. All my best, Ken What Is Your Myth Of Lost Love? Almost all of us create a personal "myth of lost love," to explain the deep wounds of our heart. Unexamined, this powerful myth leads to painful relationships with people who aren't good for us. Decoded, it illuminates our most tender, authentic self; the very self that can lead us to love. This post will help you discover your own myth of lost love.   READ MORE:

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Hello to all: There is a growing interest in spirituality within our community, a spirituality with greater freedoom than the homophobic religiosity many of us grew up with.  Spirituality can have a multitude of forms, religious and non.  The main point is this:  when we connect with our deepest self, we touch something greater, and, whatever you want to call it, it leads us to love.  Come join us as we explore our own connection to spirituality.  This should be a very special workshop - come join us and tell your friends. And please also check out the info below about the upcoming Labor Day Retreat..it will be an amazing event!   Warmly, Ken THE NEW DEEPER DATING   Spirituality and Intimacy  Tuesday, June 15, 2010 7:00 PM - 9:00 PM - Room 101     On-line Registration $20 and $25 at the door. TO REGISTER ON-LINE (save $5): CLICK HERE! Bring a guest and get $10 off admission. Bring two guests and come for free! If you are bringing one or more guests, simply respond to this email and advise us. You will be reimbursed at the door.                                                                                              Ken Page, LCSW, will lead this event as an experiential workshop on spirituality and intimacy. Come learn and share about your own sense of spirituality and it's relationship to your intimacy journey. And meet other men who share the same interests!  LOCATION 208 West 13th Street, New York City http://cts.vresp.com/c/?DeeperDatingInc./b514807e91/ad7210c987/b0fc1b3605/utm_campaign=Deeper%20Dating%20Workshop%3A%20%20Spirituality%20and%20Intimacy%2E%20%20Join%20us%20in%201%20week%2CJune%2015th&utm_medium=Email&utm_source=VerticalResponse&utm_term=www%2EDeeperDating%2Ecom      Your Next Brave Steps Toward Love  Number 9 in a free series of e-insights  from Ken Page, LCSW   I'd like to share a simple story which illustrates something profound about how we look for love. After the story, I'll ask you one simple question. Your own answers will have the power to open new dimensions of intimacy for you.  Here's the story:  A woman was searching determinedly through her yard for something. A friend passed by and asked what she was looking for. She said that she had lost a pair of earrings with a great deal of sentimental value. Her friend asked where she saw them last, and the woman told her she'd last seen them in the living room. Her friend asked the obvious question, "Well, why aren't you looking there?" And the woman answered, "It's too dark inside, I can see better in the yard."  In your dating life, what's your "living room" – the place where you know the real work lies, but which you'd prefer to avoid? Here are just some examples; trust your own gut responses to this question.   It might be inner work, such as getting help with emotional, sexual, or compulsive behaviors which hold you back. It might be about logistics; are you looking in non-virtual places where real people connect -- people  who share your values? (those are the best places, in my opinion. Online resorces are great, but they can't take the place of real interactions with new people.) It might be in the people you choose; do you get serious only with people whose values inspire you? Because if you are dating anyone else, you're ultimately wasting your time. And finally, do you show your "soul" when you meet someone whose values you love? Do you show your passion, your tenderness, your quirkiness, your wildness, your emotional and sexual edges? (In the appropriate time frames, of course!)  Or do you show an airbrushed, less original version of yourself? Do you risk showing your true self?  Take a few moments and write down your honest answers. Then talk to a friend, get feedback, and articulate, in a nitty-gritty way, how your insights translate into specific new goals. And, stay in touch with them -- let them support you and hold you accontable to your goals.   Not everyone will identify with this entry. For those of you who do, here's a challenging but wonderful reality. You probably won't be able to sustain the steepness of this climb  if you do it alone, without help and support. That's just how life works; we really do need each other to grow.  Please comment and share your insights. Fellow readers will find meaning and direction from your own personal story.  And congratulations on your bravery. The intimacy journey is not for the faint of heart! Warmly, Ken                 Subscribe to Ken Page LCSW's Free E-Lessons For Singles * required Email Address: * First Name: Zip Code: Email Marketing by VerticalResponse   Ken Page, LCSW Ken Page, LCSW is a psychotherapist who practices in New York City. He is the founder of Deeper Dating, and has led hundreds of workshops and retreats, mostly in the areas of spirituality and intimacy. He has led events at The Omega Institute, Rowe Conference Center, and the 92nd Street Y. Time Out New York called Deeper Dating "The new craze dating event; a combination singles mixer and personal growth workshop". He and his work have been featured in numerous media, including O, The Oprah Magazine, The New York Times, Match.Com, The Discovery Channel, Life Magazine, WebMD and The Advocate, among others. His Gift Theory was introduced in his recently published article in the professional journal GROUP. Contact Ken Page, LCSW at Kenpage7654@aol.com for information about individual psychotherapy and workshops.

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